Is It ADHD, Anxiety, or Just Being a Kid?

Parent guide | 31 pages

Is It ADHD, Anxiety, or Just Being a Kid?

When your child is struggling, stop searching for a label and start asking better questions.

A psychiatrist-written guide to understanding what is developmentally typical, what may deserve a closer look, and how to prepare for a careful professional evaluation.

From second-guessing every behavior to feeling better prepared for the next conversation.

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Written by Shalini Chawla, MD, Board-Certified Adult Psychiatrist and Child and Adolescent Psychiatrist.

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Table of contents

  1. Chapter 1. The Diagnosis Explosion: What's Actually Happening

    Why more children are being evaluated today, and what that means for your family.

  2. Chapter 2. ADHD: The Most Overdiagnosed, Underdiagnosed, and Misunderstood Condition

    Typical attention and activity compared with patterns that may point to ADHD.

  3. Chapter 3. Anxiety: When Worry Is Normal, and When It Isn't

    Everyday worry compared with anxiety that interferes with daily life.

  4. Chapter 4. The Things Most Often Mistaken for a Disorder

    Sleep, development, stress and other factors that can look like a condition.

  5. Chapter 5. The Conditions That Are Genuinely Underdiagnosed

    Concerns that can be missed and may deserve a closer look.

  6. Chapter 6. Getting the Right Evaluation: What to Ask For

    Preparing for an assessment and the questions to bring to school and your pediatrician.

  7. A letter to your child or teen about ADHD

  8. Glossary, references, a crisis and safety page, and closing resources

Inside, you'll find

  • Comparison tables of typical development and clinical concerns
  • How overlapping symptoms can look alike
  • Looking at impairment, duration and setting together
  • Preparing for an assessment
  • Questions for school and your pediatrician
  • Example wording for conversations

How to use it

  1. 1Download the PDF and read the opening sections first.
  2. 2Notice which parts match what you are seeing at home or at school.
  3. 3Choose one next step to try, and bring your notes to your child's clinician or school.

Who this is for

Parents and caregivers who want a clearer picture of what they are seeing and what to do next.

Educational, not a substitute for care

This guide cannot diagnose your child. It does not replace diagnosis or treatment by a qualified clinician. If you are worried about immediate safety, call or text 988 or contact emergency services.

Shalini Chawla, MD

About the author

Shalini Chawla, MD

Board-Certified Adult Psychiatrist and Child and Adolescent Psychiatrist

Read more about Dr. Chawla

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